because I’m sitting here and thinking

2 posts in a day…what the hell!?
So today is the 36th anniversary of Roe v Wade. I have a request for those who support the Roe v Wade decision and the right to choose. Can we please stop using the ‘victim of rape or incest’ argument? I know, it’s hot button and all that, but really, it detracts from the real issue. The real issue, the real argument, is that decisions regarding the health and well being of my body, decisions regarding how my body will exist should remain between me and my doctor. There is not a single other person out there that has the right to interfere with those decisions. If a woman is pregnant it does not matter how or why she is pregnant. She has the right to make a decision regarding that pregnancy and she will make it with her doctor and that decision will be based on sound medical advice that comes from scientific fact, not emotional arguments.
A woman needs to make sound, reasoned choices when it comes to her body. The choice to have a baby is a serious and life changing decision. Having a baby is something that should happen when you are ready, not because of dogma and threats.
The ‘victim of incest or rape’ is a false argument that could backfire. What happens if it’s agreed that they should be available for the poor victims…but for no one else? We have to defend the premise where it stands and not where the other side might agree.
And could I love Barack Obama any more than I do?
His statement released today:

On the 36th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, we are reminded that this decision not only protects women’s health and reproductive freedom, but stands for a broader principle: that government should not intrude on our most private family matters. I remain committed to protecting a woman’s right to choose.
While this is a sensitive and often divisive issue, no matter what our views, we are united in our determination to prevent unintended pregnancies, reduce the need for abortion, and support women and families in the choices they make. To accomplish these goals, we must work to find common ground to expand access to affordable contraception, accurate health information, and preventative services.
On this anniversary, we must also recommit ourselves more broadly to ensuring that our daughters have the same rights and opportunities as our sons: the chance to attain a world-class education; to have fulfilling careers in any industry; to be treated fairly and paid equally for their work; and to have no limits on their dreams. That is what I want for women everywhere.

Speaking of loving him and false arguments…
His Executive Order to close Guantanamo. Awesome! yes? YES! I know he promised it, but I’d assumed long political fuckery before it happened and yet, there it is.
The false argument we need to stop using regarding torture, waterboarding, illegal imprisonment is “it’s not even effective”. What if it was an effective way of gathering useful intelligence, would you still support it? Would you? I wouldn’t.
* Eighth Amendment – Prohibition of excessive bail and cruel and unusual punishment.
Excessive bail shall not be required, nor excessive fines imposed, nor cruel and unusual punishments inflicted.

We. Do. Not. Torture. We do not do this. This is something we do not do. It does not matter how effective it might be, it does not matter how SURE we are that someone knows something, we do not torture. It is more important that we lose a battle than lose that thing which makes us truly free, truly American.

7 thoughts on “because I’m sitting here and thinking

  1. I agree with you that the choice to have a baby is a serious and life changing decision. Having a baby is something that should happen when you are ready, not because of dogma and threats.
    I would also argue that the decision to not have a baby is also a serious decision that no woman I know has made lightly. I don’t think anyone grows up thinking “I’d really like to have an abortion some day”. Rather, they see it as the “least bad” of their options at a certain point in their life.

  2. Amen.
    And I also agree w/theknitaholic’s comment. And I also have so many other things to say about this which are not appropriate for a blog comments.
    Thanks for bringing this anniversary to my attention.

  3. I usually read your blogs but don’t comment. After reading this post I just wanted to let you know how right you are. I never really thought about how using the rape victim scenario could be so damaging to the argument. You bring up very good points. Thank you for this post. :)

  4. Beautifully said! I recently read an interview with a former pro-life activist who was assaulted by her pastor and chose to not carry the man’s child. She now works hard to educate because she can’t imagine a world where she couldn’t choose. It isn’t a choice someone makes because it’s fun, for crying out loud!

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